Feb 14th, 2018
No matter how hard you try to listen allowing someone to dump their trash on you it is alwys going to make you one thing … exhausted. - Of course there are times that we all need an ear and you can listen but proceed with caution and make sure there is a bed nearby so you can take a nap after you listen.
Needless to say, complaining is what therapy is for and many people don’t know that THERAPISTS have to have THERAPY to unload the stuff that people load onto THEM. We have our own trash to take out and we’ve got to walk it to the curb. The garbage man is not coming to your door to have coffee and ask about each item in the trash bag and how it got there nor does he get paid for your explanation. So before you pick up the phone and hijack someone’s energy, note that they have their (listen to podcast)